Wednesday, July 20, 2011

the table... a DIY story

or 'a post with a zillion pictures and not very much useful information.'

since we were married in 2003, we have been using a beautiful antique table given to us by a family member who was moving. we both loved the table- great size for our rental home, great barley twist legs, and a perfect deep wood color, but not too dark. i've even seen almost exactly the same table at antique malls for a nice price (but we're not planning to sell it... unless you want to make a generous offer)!

there were a few downsides to the table- it only comfortably seats 4. maybe 6, but then 4 people have the table legs against their knees. that's not very accommodating- no one really enjoys straddling a table leg for an entire meal, even if it is a rather attractive barley twist. plus, there are grooves in the top that are NEVER CLEAN. never. crumbs, dust, dead bugs (i'm not kidding)... never never clean.

the biggest problem (side note- i realize this is a ridiculous thing to call a 'problem.' i trust that you will give me the benefit of the doubt on this- i am thankful for my furniture, my home, my family & my life in general. an imperfect table is not poverty, hunger, abuse, illness, pain... it's just a table & i wanted a different one).
okay... the biggest problem with the table is that we have company pretty regularly. not always formal, but even playdates require a place to sit & have a snack. it's not life or death, but a larger table was always something i thought about as i prepared for entertaining friends & family.

what i wanted- something rustic, farmhouse-y and big... something suited for everyday family meals (we use our dining room for all meals- no table in the kitchen), casual playdate snacks, dinner with family friends, larger parties & sit-down fancy dinners such as Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter. that's a tall order. i looked at these:
Farmhouse Rectangular Dining Table, Honey/Cocoa
$1,495 (on sale!)

Sumner Dining Table
$1499

i also looked at a few others... and believe me, i know that these are probably 'inexpensive' in the design world. i can see that they are nice, big, attractive tables from reputable companies. but in the interest of putting food on the table, i could not spend 6 months grocery money getting the actual table.

so off to craigslist we go! i am not an avid craigslister... i get overwhelmed & annoyed & would rather do anything else than dig & dig for hours each day looking for the perfect table. but i did check it out once or twice a week for about 6 weeks, which is a LOT for me. and behold- one day, there is an insanely large solid oak trestle table with FOUR leaves for sale. asking price- $275. i don't have a copy of the picture they posted, but it wasn't extremely helpful. i asked the buyer if it was available for $200 and set up a time for matt to go with me to see it. long story with unimportant details (such as driving to 2 different locations to get all the parts of the table, taking it apart into tiny pieces to fit it in the minivan, and holding caroline on my lap for a highly illegal 30 minute ride home)... here is what we bought:

this is in our basement, otherwise known as the boulevard of broken furniture... and that's not actually dust. i had already started to refinish it before i took the picture. but you get the idea- it's yellowy/orange oak. very nice 80's-90's chic.


see how big!???!! that's with all 4 leaves- seats about 200. not really. probably 12 comfortably, 14/16 if we're willing to squish. my friends are willing to squish. : )


oh... the closeup of the top. there's a secret about the top. can you guess?

yup. the top is not real wood- it's laminate. the edges, the apron, the legs- all solid, heavy oak.

but it's huge, it was inexpensive ($200 is plenty of money, but for that much table?), and i'm determined to make it work.

i tried some combinations of paint, stain, sanding, sobbing (not really, but kind of)... and i came up with this:
items i found in my basement... which means they were left by the owners of our previous home. which means FREE. after an attempt at scrubbing, sanding & wiping the top (no effect), then an attempt at a 'green' refinisher, i ended up using the deglosser to prep the table and then painting on the dark walnut stain. i did about 3 coats of the stain- only wiping it off after the 1st coat. it took about 3 weeks to let it all dry & cure properly, allowing extra time for mosquito removal. yup- bugs kept dying in the surface of the table. awesomeness.

long story made slightly longer, i sealed it with a coat of satin finish polyurethane & it looked horrible. i sanded that lightly & then used 2 coats of high gloss poly. much better, although not at all what i was going for originally!

without further rambling... here's the finished product:















this is a closeup shot with flash- you can't see all these flaws unless you're looking through a camera lens. see those funny spots? bugs. the streaks? i tried using a foam roller to apply the polyurethane. don't do that- it's bad.


see? lots of pictures... and not at all farmhouse-y or rustic or even kid friendly. but it is one thing: imperfect. which means it can be beaten on & scratched up without fear of ruining the finish; it can't be ruined, really!

am i happy with it? yes.
was it worth the money/lack of money spent? yes.
do i wish i had a farmhouse table? well, i don't really think so.
although i love the look of reclaimed barnwood & soft weathered boards, maybe this fits more in our room with it's crazy painted ceiling & embellished fireplace. and i can certainly use less formal table linens & dishes to lessen the "I"M SO GLOSSY- LOOK AT ME!" effect.

i'm not going into the furniture re-finishing business, just in case you were wondering.

linked to amanda's party!

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

so far...


summer has been good so far! not amazingly peaceful by any means, but certainly not the whine-fest i had been dreading. we gave into the pool membership pressure (you have to go about 17 times to make it a 'good deal' money wise), so we've been to the WG pool a lot. we've done a few things on the summer to-do list with moderate to high degrees of success. we've had VBS this week, tons of therapy (speech & occupational) for julia, lots of dinners with friends... and i was worried we would get bored!

here are a few pictures of summer so far...
the mermaid tails... not nearly as cute as these on etsy, but sufficient for an afternoon with scissors & fabric glue.
they are reversible so there is no fighting over who gets the pink one & who gets the blue... smart mommy, yes?
we bought this table for $200 on craigslist.... yes, it's huge & i'm SO excited to be done with refinishing it soon! it could probably seat 20 with all the leaves in (and people who don't mind being cozy with each other), which is a big change from our little 4-6 seater with the awkward legs that are always in the way. more pictures of the table to come... whenever i finish it.

since we have a huge table now, i had to get a bigger rug! found this 8 x 10 plain outdoor rug at Target for $60... great price, right? so it's boring... and i'm going to paint on it. i'm a little nervous, but i've read 100 tutorials online- how hard could it be?!
see that faint pattern? i think it's called a Greek Key pattern. anyway, i'm planning to color that part in dark blue- similar to the color on our dining room walls. actually, not just similar- i'm going to use the same paint since i have almost 1 gallon leftover. pictures of this project to come as well... hopefully successful pictures, not sad 'look at the rug i ruined' pictures. : )
i've also been busily cooking recipes i get from Pinterest! this one is originally from this website. it calls for tomatoes, but our friends that ate with us have a child with a tomato allergy & i left them out. it was great without them, but i bet they add a lot of flavor!
yes, that's a whole chicken in the background. i've never done it before, and i have no idea why- so easy (and inexpensive) to buy a wholechicken & stuff it with garlic & herbs & season it! less questionable sodium content than a rotisserie chicken, too.

we've also been hitting some garage sales! julia (and matt, of course) scored big with all the Cars characters for $5- she loves lining them all up and then taking a few select cars to bed with her.
i hit it particularly big with an estate sale find of 8 older mason jars for $1-$2 each! even the large ones- all but 1 with the original glass fitted lid. and some ironstone, some glass plates, and a funky old shelf that i'm going to repaint & put in our family room. pictures of that project later!
this was less fun... i was blending up some slow roasted tomatoes for a soup & i exploded them all over my kitchen. this picture doesn't do it justice- it was in every crevice of the window trim, and our tiered fruit/veggie basket was completely covered. and i scalded my hand. huge bummer, but the soup turned out really well!
last but certainly not least- my free adirondack chairs! i found these beauties (yes, there are 2 of them) while out running on sunday morning! they fold up nicely, are very sturdy and are such a unique style- i LOVE them! i had 2 offers to buy them from me, but i'm just not parting with them, ladies. now, if you want to rummage in my basement for random decor & furniture items to buy... well, that's a whole other story. and probably another 'home goods swap party' in the near future!

lest you think my life is all sunshine and roses... here's what i see most often:
and i quote, "mommy, take a picture of my face because i am not happy and i think it's because you hurt my feelings."

happy summer, friends.

Friday, June 10, 2011

Summer 2011



i know every blogger in the nation has posted their summer 'to-do list' which they made in a beautiful & creative way...
i did not do that.

i have a perfectionist streak- it only comes out on specific projects.
making window (mis)treatments?
not perfectionist.
i'm quite happy to follow The Nester & hot glue and/or tack my fabric right onto the wall with no hem, no liner, and certainly no weights to give it that perfect drape.
i'm doing good if i iron the fabric before getting it on the wall! it doesn't have to be perfect to be beautiful- that's a direct Nester quote, but i'm in 100% agreement.
same thing with pillows- i glue gunned about 10 pillow covers,
and i'm quite happy with them.

but something about a printed or written project brings out the perfectionist in me.
i want it to look a certain way & i know if i work hard enough it will be just exactly what i want.
this can cause excessive procrastination, headaches, crankiness, and (most often) incomplete projects.

so i pushed through on this one- just typed it out & stuck it on the wall.
here is our list for the summer!





seems ambitious? you haven't met caroline.
we already made the mermaid tails this morning, and she's onto the next project.
i, however, am quite tired and would like to sit down!

pictures of the mermaid tails coming as soon as i catch my breath.

so, a few months probably... : )

a few disclaimers:
1. yes, we copied much of this from other lists and/or Pinterest boards. so what?!

2. yes, caroline chose each thing on this list. i would suggest something & she would tell me if it was 'list-worthy' or not. obviously she did not say 'no' to many options- hence the 3 page list.

3. yes, we are doing other activities this summer- handwriting camp (i know, right?), therapies for julia, VBS, swim lessons, dance camp, travel. we'll make it work somehow.

4. yes, we will hunt for fairies. she was adamant about this one. i'm not sure if we will pretend we see them, or if we will find doll house people & call them fairies- that's still up in the air!

5. yes, many of these things are parties. apparently i have a mini-Martha Stewart on my hands, and she plans to be the hostess of WG this summer! i don't mind- i'm enjoying party planning as of late, and these sound like fun. if you want an invitation, you'll have to speak to my boss! : )

Friday, June 3, 2011

Easter... a few months late

yes, i know it's June & Easter was in April. whatever- it's my blog & i want to put Easter pictures on it!
we didn't go for traditional Easter baskets this year- i made library tote bags for the girls & got pillow pets for them. seems like they liked them...

the chocolate bunny was disgusting- caroline didn't even eat much of it.
getting dressed! julia loved the slip and didn't want the dress on.


grandma outdid herself with lovely heirloom dresses for the girls- you can see why i panicked as they ran around the yard in them! these dresses are literally priceless.



thank you, grandma! we love them!

Thursday, June 2, 2011

i promise

julia's a gangster

i will blog again. it's not lack of things to write about... it's just priorities. sometimes you just have to focus on the bigger picture, you know? it's also laziness... it's much easier to read other people's blogs and play on Pinterest than to fix my pictures & write something worth reading.

in the meantime, go read this. i know someone famous! : )
i'll come back soon. really.


Thursday, February 10, 2011

5 Things

1. i haven't blogged about my first marathon yet... that was about 9 weeks ago. partly because i'm hoping to have pictures from my mom (which are mostly likely erased, but that's okay. i looked like a sweaty, weepy sausage in spandex- not pretty). and partly because i know most people don't really want to read about 26 miles of running.

2. i have often lately wanted to move somewhere where there are no people to deal with. i default to collapsing & being by myself when people frustrate or disappoint me. this is a good quality in a pastor's wife, yes? no. no it's not. (and if you're wondering if you are one of those people, it's not likely. it's the people who are right now saying, 'i'm never frustrating or disappointing!' yes- you are.) i realize this is blunt & mean. i also realize that i am equally disappointing & annoying & frustrating, in addition to judgmental. God's not done with me yet.

3. i decided to paint the ceiling in my kitchen the same color as the walls. i love the way it looks, but the ceiling also extends into the family room & mudroom. i will be painting for the next year. (pictures coming when my camera is fixed- never let your 4 year old play photographer with your only camera.)

4. we've been reading about sensory integration disorders to help julia lately, and i've decided that i have at least 2 of these disorders, if not more. and i've diagnosed all of my friends & their kids, too. just kidding about that. but not about me- i've definitely got issues.

5. i had a 5th thing, but caroline wants to make a chef's hat out of colored paper. i think i'll do that, because saying "no, mommy's blogging" isn't probably a 'good mommy' move.

happy thursday, friends. spring is coming... hold on.

Friday, January 21, 2011

catharsis

does setting (and sticking to) a financial budget make you want things more than you did before? i hope it's not just me. we've done a 'cash only' system for sticking to our budget for about a year now, give or take a few months. we've really seen the benefit of it- when you're out of cash, you stop spending. done. easy, yes? pretty much. we're not credit card crazed, so it's not as much about paying off debt as it is living within our means & finding ways to use our money wisely & generously.

i believe in this... i really really really do. in fact, i believe that more money & more things would not make me happier. i can easily be selfish & focused on what i want that i don't have. let's be clear- i have too much already, so there's nothing i should be whiny about. truly.

lately we've gotten back on the cash only track & are setting aside money to fix-up the girls' bathroom, i've been wanting things. i know that i want to see this goal through- pay for this remodel with cash & not overspend. i think it's a good goal for us right now- it will benefit us both now & when we have to sell this house down the road.
but holy cow!
every time i turn around i see something that i could fix up or make better or cuter or more comfortable with $50-$100. or $1000... whatever.
that would NOT help us save towards our goal.
(matt would say his goal is a new laptop... that's my next goal, i promise!)

so long introduction to what Greta says is cathartic for her...
THINGS I WANT BUT REALLY SHOULDN'T (OR CAN'T) SPEND $$ ON RIGHT NOW... OR IN SOME CASES EVER:

Carriage House Chandelier
to replace the ugly fixture in our front hall that really bugs me.

Narrow 6 ft denim rug
zoom














6 foot Denim Rag Rug for my mudroom
$42

Shown in Cocoa Stain
Farmhouse Table (mocha) that seats 10
$1950
this one isn't nearly as cool as the one my mom & i found at an antique mall last year... but i can't find the picture of it right now.

Printed Scattered Stripe Rug
for our family room
$148



hmmm... i don't know if i feel like i don't want these things now or not. i was tempted to make a really long list & then find them all online somewhere, which probably isn't a good idea.